It’s not a matter of time, it’s a matter of space.

by | Dec 7, 2021

When you have created a space for you to heal, time becomes irrelevant because healing knows no time. Healing unfolds in it’s own way at it’s own pace, without force, pressure or clocks. We want healing to occur quickly but if it is rushed we miss the subtle nuances of the mini lessons wrapped in frustration, irritation and anger at not feeling better. When we let go of time, we relax our nervous systems but open up to a greater understanding of how the universe works and unfolds before our very eyes. No matter how much we think ourselves right about how quickly we should heal, our soul moves in to relax the ego whether it wants comfort, reassurance and safety or not.

The soul knows what’s best for us, even as the ego wants to be in the drivers seat. The universe always has an interesting way of course correcting us to bring forth whatever lessons we must learn in this lifetime.  There are some things we can control and some we can’t or even shouldn’t . Often the ego thinks it can control just about everything until the soul beckons to be noticed in a gentle, all knowing way. The soul’s aim is not to show the ego who’s boss and put it in it’s place. The soul works with the decisions the ego has made by weaving in lessons along the way no matter the circumstances or situations.

For example, let’s say you were in a relationship with your partner for ten years. You decided to split, although you both were heart broken. The lessons you learned in that amount of time were orchestrated in such a way as to leave you with an indelible reminder of why you are a better person from having had that relationship whether the break up was relatively smooth or very bumpy.

Sometimes we can’t see the wisdom between the waves of turbulent waters. We need to be on the shore looking back and pausing to catch our breath from swimming so hard we thought we’d drown only to see that the person on the sand is a new version of the person we only thought we knew.

Whether you are healing from a disease, the loss of a loved one or relationship, financial difficulties, job loss or any other challenging situation, giving yourself the space to do the inner work and releasing timelines will actually accelerate the process.  

Peace, health and love

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